“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.” How often do you think this? If you are a control freak in recovery, my guess is often. You end up doing it all with a smile on the outside and a deep fiery rage on the inside.

You think you have to do it all, because god forbid someone does things a little differently than you would. You feel responsible when others are disappointed. You take it all on, and end up overwhelmed, exhausted and resentful.

You deserve to go after the life you want. You are worthy of having everything your heart desires. You were born worthy and nothing has changed. The only thing that went wrong is that you started believing things you were told.

Decision making is something that almost everyone struggles with. It is a skill that not many of us are taught. Almost everyone I speak with is scared to decide on something.